
Estate Sales 101: What Families Need to Know
ANETTE TARGOWSKI, Realtor
10/16/20252 min read


💔 Because “where do we even start?” shouldn’t be the scariest sentence of the process.
Estate sales are never just about stuff — they’re about people, stories, and goodbyes.
And when families are already feeling emotional, the logistics can feel like climbing Mount Laundry with a backpack full of memories.
Here’s how to make it smoother, smarter, and kinder to yourself.
📦 1. Start with a System (and Permission to Feel)
You’re not just sorting items — you’re sorting emotions.
Start small and simple: Keep, Sell, Donate, Let Go.
Be gentle with yourself. Some days, you’ll fly through a box. Other days, you’ll sit with one photo for an hour. Both are okay.
When we help clients, Mark often says, “Let’s just start with one room.” And somehow, that one room opens the door to the rest of the process — literally and emotionally.
💰 2. Understand Value — Emotional vs. Market
Here’s a truth that stings a little: the things that mean the most to us don’t always mean much to buyers.
And that’s okay.
It doesn’t make your memories less valuable — it just means they’re priceless in a way that can’t be measured in dollars.
That said, some items do hold resale value — and this is where your strategy matters.
🏷️ 3. Sell in Layers
Every item has its place — you just have to match it with the right audience:
Yard Sale: perfect for quick wins.
Antique dealers: ideal for collectibles.
Consignment shops: for those in-between treasures that deserve better than a tarp in the driveway.
Locally, I always recommend checking Sutton Consignment (Trenton) or County Traders (Bloomfield) — they’ve helped many of our clients find great new homes for unique pieces.
🤝 4. Get Help When You Need It
You don’t have to do it alone.
Estate sale companies handle pricing, advertising, and even crowd control.
We’ve worked with several wonderful local partners who make the process respectful and organized — which is worth every penny when emotions are high.
❤️ Final Thought
An estate sale isn’t just about letting go — it’s about passing things forward.
Each item sold becomes part of someone else’s story.
Start small. Take breaks. Drink tea. And remember — you’re not losing history; you’re giving it new life.
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