Downsizing Regrets to Avoid

Anette Targowski, Realtor

11/5/20251 min read

Downsizing should feel like freedom, not frustration. Yet, too often, people look back wishing they’d done things differently — started earlier, asked for help, or made smarter choices. Here’s how to sidestep the most common regrets I see in the Bay of Quinte.

⚠️ Top Downsizing Regrets — and How to Avoid Them

  • Waiting too long to start. Begin while you still have energy and clarity. Downsizing in stages is far less overwhelming than tackling it all at once.

  • Trying to do it alone. It’s emotional work. Bring in family, friends, or professionals like our team who guide clients step by step.

  • Letting guilt dictate what stays. Keep what you love, not what you feel obligated to keep. Every box you move should serve a purpose or bring joy.

  • Underestimating emotional fatigue. Schedule breaks. Allow time for reflection. Downsizing isn’t just about square footage — it’s about closure and new beginnings.

  • Not documenting memories. Before parting with sentimental items, take photos or create a keepsake album. The memories stay even if the objects go.

Every regret I’ve ever heard from a client comes down to one thing: they waited too long to ask for help.
So if you’re even thinking about downsizing, start the conversation now — your future self will thank you.